My theme this month has been “Don’t take it personally” and I have cited Byron Katie who said what others say is just a “thought” and I have the choice to believe that “thought”. As Davidji reminds us we allow people into our mind we would not welcome into our home. I ran across the following quote on Facebook which captures a positive reframe of this concept.
“You are the artist of your life. Don’t give the paintbrush to anyone else.
Your life is a canvas, and you are the artist wielding the brush. The colors you choose, the strokes you make, the image you create—these are all expressions of your unique vision, your individual journey. To relinquish control of that brush, to allow others to dictate the strokes and hues of your life, is to surrender your creative power, to diminish your own unique voice.
Welcome your role as the artist of your existence; choose your colors boldly, paint with intention, and create a masterpiece that reflects your authentic self, a work of art that is uniquely and undeniably yours”. Mitra. Tips That Change Your Life
As April winds down I will not give my paintbrush to anyone else!